I have this book - it's great. I'm so excited that I have read a book that you are writing about. I think this might be the first time. : )

When I worked with couples, I was constantly encouraging them to ask for what they need in the relationship. As you mention, people are different and we can't read our partner's mind.

Also, the importance of self-care and working to meet our own needs instead of expecting our partner to do that for us. So many great nuggets in this article. Thank you, Sandra!